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I'm screening all my comments from now on.
I'll unscreen most of them as soon as I read them.

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Whaaa!
I can't seem to filter my friends page anymore!
Can you?
Can you tell me how?
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I have 2 computers with different versions of modern Windows operating systems (Vista and something that looks like Vista but is a bit different), and neither of them will accept/install MS Word from the microsoft website. I'm trying to install the 60-day free sample software. Everytime I try, I get different error messages. Last time (months ago, for 3 hours of tears) it was issues with fucking Click-To-Run and this time it says that I'm not connected to the internet (both computers told me this tonight while I was surfing Facebook on them waiting for the download) when I clearly am connected. Since my last try a few months ago, I've installed Windows updates that supposedly fix Clic-To-Run bugs but I'm not noticing any difference. In fact, I can't even find Click-to-fucking-run in my Control Panel at all any more, and it used to be in the list of programs there.

Do I have any beautiful nerdly friends in Ottawa who might be able to help my poor stupid machines? Or at least one of them? Open Office doesn't have the footnoting capability I need so I really do need to have MS Word installed in the next week or so. My papers are piling up and footnoting them by hand is stressful and dumb.

I will provide home-made coconut icecream as a reward!
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"Siamese cats also have a very distinctive voice, which is often compared to a human baby's cry. It can reach decibel levels as high as those of emergency sirens."

Anyone want to help me strategize how to drive Cohen (Mr Siamese Loudmouth) for 5 hours to Ottawa without one of us going insane? I don't think tranquilizers are an option because of his current drug coctail. I wish I could take them while driving, but clearly that isn't an option.

Last time, we had to pull over the moving van to cry. (Being on percocet did not help with the angst from the car trip. I have a touch of PTSD from the situation.) This time, I'll be taking him a week in advance of moving so that I won't have to deal with him while the movers are in the house and while I am more stressed.

I think I might put him in his cage in the "trunk" area of the hatchback with the back seats collapsed so I can keep a visual check on him. The extra 5' of distance between he and I will be a good start on reducing the pain from his wails. + I'll have earplugs with me this time. Do you think that regular foamy disposable ear plugs will be enough?

Thoughts?
Advice?

I might also bring Hazel with me in that same trip, or in a separate trip. I'm still deciding. She is a better traveler than he is, and she doesn't require much space in the car.
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CBC Radio!

RIGHT NOW in Ontario, or 9:30am elsewhere in Canada they are talking about 2 trans men birthing and parenting. You may even know the fellows being interviewed.
Listen!

I'll post a follow up web link later this week.
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This is a reminder because I just found out that the deadline is almost up for survey responses.

If you are trans-identified and live in Ontario, your experiences are needed for the Trans-Pulse survey. Time is almost up - the survey closes on April 30th. The survey is put on by a team of trans people and allies, and they are collecting information in order to prove that transphobia is bad for your health. This could create really amazing changes in health care policy worldwide! As a bonus, you spend the time to fill it out, there is a gift certificate thank-you gift.



http://www.transpulse.ca/

Please pass this on to trans-identifies friends. If you have completed the survey and have invite codes to share, please pass them on soon! (You might want to consider posting them here if you don't know any trans people to give them to who haven't already done the survey.)

(x-posted)
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  • someone delivering soy lattes to each desk at 10am, on rollerskates
  • puppies sleeping on my feet
  • kittens sleeping in my inbox
  • music being played, on a real stereo at a normal volume (not tempering the volume ridiculously low out of fear that the next cubicle over will hear it)
  • bright colours!
  • real art on the walls!
  • no creepy people
  • no people with dead souls
  • no dead plants
  • a kitchen with enough space to actually prepare proper meals, and fridge space to store food!
  • play space for school aged kids, for when they are done school and there is only 1 hour till the parent is done work
  • a full on-site daycare for smaller kids
  • space to breastfeed
  • knitting during meetings is OK
  • lotion and nice soaps in the bathrooms
  • a space to stretch and exercise + showers
  • actual doors on the offices, instead of cubicles
  • furniture made out of real wood
  • no carpet
  • windows that open
  • a sofa chair to sit in while reading documents instead of always having to sit at the desk.
  • task lighting instead of overhead fluorescents
  • a caffeteria with healthful foods, available at a cheap price - and a nice place to sit and chat while eating
  • bike racks in a protected and secure space (indoors!!)
  • people of a variety of ages and backgrounds
  • a swap box for recycled clothing, books, etc
What would be in your vision of the perfect office?
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I don't like getting vaccines, but I'm glad I did it. I admit that it's creepy to allow someone to inject a lab-made product into your body. However, I really believe in vaccination. I know that it has saved millions of lives worldwide, and I believe in the science behind it. I feel really confident about the fact that this H1N1-A (swine) strain is actually the dominant flu strain this year, so it'll actually offer me better chance of immune protection than the regular flu shot does most years (which is pretty much a 1 in 3 chance of being the right one, though the stats can also be a lot slimmer.) I don't question getting the annual influenza shot each year - I really believe that it saves lives and helps with the personal/systemic burden of the disease. I'm excited to have gotten this shot.

I wish it was easier for everyone to get it. I got mine at my family doctor cause my clinic is a specialised clinic mandated to outreach to special populations (queers, street involved people, and also anyone in my local neighbourhood who needs a family doc.) So they were open for service to their own clientelle, and so far they're only giving H1N1 shots to high risk populations like me*. I waited 10 mins. The nurse was efficient and relaxed, and it wasn't crowded at all there. It was amazing compared to the scare stories you're hearing on the news. I also got him to sign paperwork for me for school so that I can work with pregnant women during the flu season.




* I have asthma / reactive airways and a history of chronic bronchitis. I had it at least 3x a year from 1993-1997 and occasionally (maybe once a year?) since then. When I get sick, I get good 'n sick and it lasts 3x as long with me as it does with the general population. Since I've been getting vaccinated, I haven't gotten influenza once. It's been amazing!
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As some of you know, I worked with seasonal influenza policies and research for the last 2+ years, and have sat in on endless hours of scientific discussions among the world’s top flu experts. I am not a researcher, but I have handled dozens of research papers and been in researcher debates for about 2.5 career years. I really like the document I've linked & pasted here as a summary of why people should not worry about getting their vaccines, so I thought I'd post it here.

In addition, on a more personal note, I really suggest that if you have coworkers or loved ones in high risk groups that you should get vaccinated to help reduce the chance that they'll get gravely ill. Also remember that most high risk people are invisible in their high risk status (like me - I look healthy but I actually have asthma and a history of dozens of respiratory infections which have left me with very over-reactive lungs.) Early pregnancy, immunocompromised health conditions and caregivers for children/elderly are also invisible situations that would really benefit from increasing herd immunity to all diseases -- and right now H1N1 is the most prevalent germ.

Normally with the seasonal flu shot the vaccine contains 3 deactivated virus strains that scientists have calculated to be the most likely ones to circulate that year. If your community has a different vaccine circulating that isn't in the trivalent vaccine, then you're S.O.L. THIS year, the H1N1 vaccine offers us a waaay better chance of immunity `cause we actually know which virus is the most common one, and we've prepared a specific shot for it. So, if you're usually willing to run on luck and usually decide not to bother with the trivalent vaccine, you might want to reconsider with respect to this special monovalent vaccine `cause it's such a specific product.

If you've already had the swine flu (mild or serious), then you don't need to be vaccinated cause your immune system will carry memory of it and will fight it off if you are exposed again. (Vaccines mimic this process.)

Check out Myths 2, 3 and 4 in the linked article as they directly address a lot of the negative news hoopla that's in circulation.


( full text here )
source: http://www.phac-aspc.gc.ca/alert-alerte/h1n1/vacc/myth-mythe-eng.php

Note: if you are in a country other than Canada, you mave have access to other vaccine products such as an inhaled nasal drop or mist. The same principles apply in terms of how it builds immunity. The factors that stimulate your immune system into a response are just being delivered another way.
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They are like Centurion sandles + Chuck Taylor sneakers, together in some unnatural evil spawn child!

Ew ew ew ew! I totally can't help gawking in horror whenever I see them.
Gawd, I hope this trend passes quickly.
I'd rather see Crocs!
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****Peaceful & Pro-Choice Vigil for Dr. George Tiller****

8:00pm
Tuesday, June 2nd
Human Rights Monument @ Elgin & Lisgar
Ottawa

On Sunday May 31st at around 10:00am Dr. George Tiller was murdered. He was shot to death in the vestibule of the church he belonged to in Wichita , Kansas .

Dr. Tiller was an abortion provider. He was one of the only doctors providing late-term abortions, and since 1973 he provided these services to women despite many threats against his life.

His murder was an act of violence that not only takes his life, hurting his family and loved ones, but one that threatens the entire pro-choice community and beyond.

This vigil will be a chance to gather to honour Dr. Tiller, and to gather together offering support to one another. Many of us are deeply shaken by what happened, and this event will allow us be together in solidarity, showing support for his family, his staff, for the women and families he has served, and for the abortion community.

Please join us in a peaceful gathering.
Bring candles, flowers, whatever you like.

This is an accessible event for people of all faiths and genders, open to anyone that would like to join us in solidarity.

*********
8:00pm
Tuesday, June 2nd
Human Rights Monument @ Elgin & Lisgar
Ottawa
*********

Scoop Ball!

Jan. 9th, 2009 11:43 am
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Wow! Thanks for all the responses!
I also thought it was called Wiffle Ball, but apparently that is a game kinda like baseball. It's not jai-alai cause 1) we don't play that in the Maritimes and 2) my scoop was plastic and not rattan.

Here's the perfect picture I found when I googled using the terms: Scoop Ball.
Win!



Thanks for helping me guess! That was super fun. :)
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Dear livejournal pals,

I'm going crazy over here cause I am unable to remember the name of the "sport" that I played in gym class. It involves throwing a catching a ball in a crescent shaped cup thingy. It was super fun. It was kinda like a gateway to lacrosse, which we played when we were a bit older. Like parachute, it was pretty much only a rainy day activity.

Do you know what it's called?


(my artistic rendering)
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Dear America,

Please do a good job tomorrow. We need you.

xox

Caro & the world
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dear Toronto connections,

I have a growing urge to dabble, once again, in some anti-poverty and anti-globalization activism. I'm interested in working with people who care about families, food, access to resources and even unions. Bonus points for feminist & queer positive aspects to the work. Do you know of any local activist groups/causes that you'd recommend for me? I'd really like to spend time with people who are loving and hopeful in their expression of activism, and not so much into rage as an expression of politics.
I've seen OCAP posters around. Do any of you know their vibe?

I am considering coming out of my cocoon.
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A house burned down tonight, 3 doors away from mine. In case you know my neighbourhood, it was the feral cat enclave on Eccles between my street and Booth across from CUSO. I don't know how many tenants lived there, aside from at least a half dozen feral cats, but it is definitely a multiple unit building.

I found out about all of this because a neighbour called me while I was at school and I ignored the 1st call but then I answered when she kept redialing. She told me that I should come home to check my pets in case the house was full of smoke, even though my house was not at risk of fire. I really appreciated it.

I took a cab from school and then got here by sneaking past barricades into my own house. Kira was with me. I closed all the windows, cuddled the cat and then we took the dog out for a walk to chill her out and to distract me. The Sally Ann, SPCA and the Red Cross all had volunteers out and they all appeared to be useless to the woman trying to coral 3 of her 4 small wet dogs into her lap on a neighbour's lawn. One of her dogs is missing and is probably lost to fire. None of them had leashes and they were all freaking out, so I went home and grabbed some rope and made them all chest harnesses with a few knots. Then we walked around the neighbourhood for half an hour or so and we parted when I found another way to sneak back into my house. I'm hyped up but totally ok. Mr Kitty is in need of cuddles, but he's being a trooper.

I wish that Chinatown would stop burning down. It's a terrible combination of landlord and municipal neglect that is based in poverty, fear of mental illness and good old fashioned racism pushed by a desire for gentrification. It is not normal to have an average of 3 houses per year burn down in a small neighbourhood. We should not accept it.

Here is a meagre news report about it. It was a 3-alarm fire and about a dozen fire trucks + other emergancy vehicles were there.
http://ottawasun.com/News/OttawaAndRegion/2008/06/16/5897386.html
These reports are better:
http://www.canada.com/ottawacitizen/news/story.html?id=a92561f7-0dd1-4269-b2dd-3b48e22144d5
http://ottsun.canoe.ca/News/OttawaAndRegion/2008/06/17/5900896.html
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New Norco Cruiser womens’ bike for sale - $450

Regular retail price is $475 + tax ($540)


(My computer isn't letting me load up images right now, but the link I've included has pictures on the manufacturer's web site.)

This 1950s style cruiser bike was purchased at end of season 2007, and has been ridden for 2 months. It was a custom order so there are no other ones like this in Ottawa. I can't ride it because of a back injury and I don't want to store it for future use. It was stored indoors during the winter after I bought it last October. Upgrades include the addition of a double kick stand and lovely wicker basket. Bike is in excellent “like new” condition.
( details )
Click here for the Norco web page with retail price and product specifications. The model name is "Sekine".
http://www.norco.com/bikes/city_and_path/cruisers/

Bike is available for pick-up or test ride at Tunney’s Pasture or in Centretown.

Knotty Fun

May. 12th, 2008 02:58 pm
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I'm teaching a rope bondage workshop tonight at Venus Envy as a freelancer.
I spent my lunch hour cramming for my knot-naming/tying skills. The naming is the toughest part for me, but really... when you're in the bedroom you don't need to know the names - you just need to know the uses. I'll be encouraging creativity with the basic knots that you'll learn.

It's $20 for non-students and $10 for students & low income.
Starts at 6:30 tonight (get there are 6:15 if you haven't pre-registered)
Venus Envy Ottawa, 320 Lisgar
You get a 10% discount off purchases after the workshop. (The workshop could pay for itself!)


Basic rope work for bondage will be covered... basically a how & why workshop.
The structure is casual, but I have a set list of things that will be covered with time allowed for experimenting/practicing. So far 7 people are registered, so it'll be a nice small workshop. You don't need to come with a lover/buddy, but that makes it extra fun. You can practice on yourself or on a chair if you don't want to buddy up with a stranger.

Here's the official description:

Knotty Fun: An Intro to Rope Bondage
Learn to tie knots and, more importantly, how to untie knots. We will also discuss safety, buying tips, and teach you how to tie enough knots to keep your friends tied up tight. This is an interactive workshop, and a length of rope will be provided for practice. As an added bonus we'll be showing off all forms of bondage gear.

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